Leopard Gecko can't open both eyes. !!!HELP!!!?

I have a leopard gecko that has been one years old for around 2 weeks now and shed three days ago. Since then she can only open her eyes for a few seconds and mostly has them closed. We have tried socking her is warm water for 15 minutes, the saline (not sure how its spelled) water and very gently using a q-tip and misting her but none of those have worked. The humidity is good, the cage is a good size, we use carpet, no heating rock, a good light, heating pad on the bottom and we calcium powder on her worms. She only had worms for a while now, I think the last time she had crickets was November. She seems to have something that looks like a little white bump under both her eyes. She has not eaten since this started. She seems to be more scared than before and sometimes twitches her head a little when she tries to like her eyes. Her eyes don't open anymore when she licks them. She has opened her eyes only a few times and doen't leave it open for more than a second. We can't go to the vet as my dad refuses to go to one. Please help, I have searched around but nothing is working.